Providence resident Freida Adams, who waited in line to pay her respects to Caprio on Thursday, came before Caprio for in his courtroom for a parking ticket – an interaction she never forgot. She said he asked her for her story, and she told him about being a foster mother to 27 children over the years. He was moved.
“He had so much compassion and love. He said, ’You know what? Since you was a foster mother, you don’t have to pay it,'” she said. “That’s the kind of love that judge had for everyone and everybody. He had good morals and he loved everybody and he didn’t treat no one no different from he treated anyone.”
Adams said she cried when she learned Caprio died.
“If more judges was like him, it would be a better world today because he was a fair judge, he’s a just judge, he’s a caring judge and he’s a true man of God,” she said. “I wouldn’t have missed this for the world because that’s how much respect I have for the judge.”
Riccardo Giannini flew in for Caprio’s services from France, where he said Caprio’s death had been all over the news.
“It’s amazing – the simplicity, the kindness, and how far that goes,” he said.
CAPRIO HAD A WORKING-CLASS BACKGROUND
According to his biography, Caprio came from humble beginnings, the second of three boys in an Italian immigrant family in the Federal Hill neighbourhood of Providence, Rhode Island. He said he learned compassion from his father, who would wake Caprio and his brother up at four in the morning to accompany him on his route delivering milk. His father also worked as a fruit peddler.
“I saw firsthand how other hardworking people couldn’t afford to pay their bill, and I saw how my dad treated them, you know?” Caprio told journalist Adrienne Bankert while promoting his biography, Compassion In Court: Life-Changing Stories from America’s Nicest Judge, earlier this year. “His company ordered him to stop delivery if they missed paying for two weeks. He never stopped delivery. Never.”
Caprio’s cousin Carol Caprio Stravato grew up on the same street as Caprio in the tenement buildings their fathers bought working as fruit peddlers.
“No matter what he did through his whole life, he always made the family very proud,” she said. “We didn’t come from money. He worked for everything he had. That’s why he had compassion for the working man.”
In a 2017 interview with the AP, Caprio said he knows that his courtroom may be the only interaction with the justice system many people ever have. He wanted it to be a positive one.
“Whether it’s justified or not, I think there is distrust of the institutions of government,” he said. “I think there’s a sense that there’s lacking in understanding and compassion and kindness with the institutions of government … I’m not trying to change the world, but I’m trying to do my part to dispel those thoughts, those feelings.”
Father Bob Marciano, pastor of Saint Kevin Parish in Providence and a longtime friend of Caprio’s, said Caprio became such a sensation online “because he was so real”.
“Last week, the gospel at Mass was, ‘The last shall be first, and the first shall be last,’” he said. “Who’s last but an immigrant from Italy who comes from nothing, and then rises to this rank of a judge in Providence, and then an international star who shows the world with kindness and compassion, really does work and changes lives?